Striking a Good Balance of Couples and Singles at our Perth Swinging Events
Many factors determine the success of a swingers event. A good venue, friendly staff, good music, and comfortable amenities set the scene. The experience of the event also relies heavily on the people in attendance. I’m sure that you have experienced that a great night is enjoyed when you make a good connection with other guests and this leads to ongoing relationships, and perhaps some hot playtimes.
We always strive to attract a quality, well presented crowd with a good balance of cultures, ages, and singles and couples. This also means a balance of single men, single ladies, and couples.
We base our event invites on the many contacts that we have with guests during the week which include text messages, emails, and RHP registrations. These indicators allow us to use our experience running swinging events to predict the number and types of guests that will attend. We invite guests that are a good fit for the theme and will give us a good balance.
It’s a fact of life that everyone who confirms they will be attending an event will not always show up to the event. Unfortunately, this can sometimes upset our intended event balance.
It is always a challenge to screen out the single men that apply to attend parties. I’m sure that you have noticed that on most dating and meetup sites, including RHP there are many more men than ladies profiles. Hence we have a disproportionate amount of single men who contact us every week asking to attend our swingers’ parties. We take a lot of time to attempt to invite single men who will respect our rules, understand consent, and will be a good fit for our swingers events.
Over the last year we have responded to the community sentiment to hold more couples events with less or no single men. We have been hosting our bi-monthly couples-only Saturday night events – Couples Club and Club Erotica. These events have been a big success and well-supported.
For our Friday and Saturday events where single men are invited, we have cut back on the number of single men that we invite. We only allow screened single men who have attended one or more of our previous events, and we only invite 4-5 at each event and now ask them to pre-purchase tickets so that there are no door entries to single men.
We have also tried to cut down the number of singles on our Thursday events as they have become more swingers-type events. Unfortunately, we have had fewer greedy girls visit us in the past few months, but they are always welcomed! If we have a greedy girl confirmed then we know we can invite more singles.
If you are a single man that would like to attend it helps if you can send us a photo that shows you are well presented, and if you can confirm that you have read our website and understand how the swinging community works, and the rules of consent.
If you ever have any conflicts with others at the club it is important to report it to us on the night when it occurs. This allows us to consult with all parties and if the rules of the club have been broken than offending parties will no longer be invited to future events.
I hope you will join us soon and enjoy a fun unforgettable night!
